Getting and enforcing orders
- Family and estate
How to Get a Restraining Order: Step-by-Step Process, Evidence and What to Expect
Step-by-step guide to getting a restraining or protective order: where to file, emergency and temporary orders, evidence to bring, the hearing, service, what orders can include and safety planning.
4 min read - Courts and claims
Restraining Orders Explained: Types and How They Work
How protective orders work, how to request one, what happens at the hearing and what a violation means.
4 min read - Courts and claims
Order of Protection vs. Restraining Order: Is There a Difference?
How the terms order of protection, restraining order and no-contact order are used and how each works.
2 min read - Family and estate
Restraining Order Violations: What Counts, How to Report and What Happens to the Violator
What counts as violating a restraining order, how to report and document violations, possible criminal charges, contempt, what to do if you are accused, and how to request changes or end an order.
3 min read - Courts and claims
Harassment and Stalking Laws: Your Options as a Victim
What counts as criminal harassment or stalking, how to document it and the options including police reports and protective orders.
2 min read
Leaving safely and getting help
- Family and estate
Leaving an Abusive Relationship: Legal Steps, Housing Protections and Safety Planning
Legal and practical steps when leaving an abusive relationship: safety planning, protective orders, custody emergencies, housing and lease protections, finances, documents and free confidential help.
3 min read - Family and estate
Legal Aid for Divorce and Child Custody: How to Get Free or Low-Cost Help
How to get free or low-cost legal help with divorce, custody and child support, including legal aid priorities, court self-help centers and limited-scope lawyers.
4 min read - Family and estate
Child Custody Basics: Legal vs. Physical Custody
How courts decide custody, the difference between legal and physical custody and how parenting plans and changes work.
4 min read - Courts and claims
Domestic Violence Charges: What to Expect
How domestic violence cases work, mandatory arrest policies, protective orders and where victims and accused people can find help.
2 min read
Frequently asked questions
How do I get a restraining order?
File a petition at the court clerk's office, ask for a temporary order and attend the hearing.
Does it cost money?
Many courts waive fees for domestic violence orders.
Can I invite the other person to contact me?
No, only the court can change the order.
Is a violation a crime?
Yes, it can lead to arrest and charges.
Where can I get confidential help?
The National Domestic Violence Hotline and local shelters.